“You can have anything in this world if you want it badly enough
and are willing to pay the price. With your priorities in order,
press on, and never look back. May all your dreams come true!
You can, indeed, have it all!
- Mary Kay Ash
Our dream life is a big deal to us. Isn’t it? We are willing to do anything to reach it and make it a reality. However, our dream life is not something we can achieve overnight or in just a snap. It definitely isn’t easy.
So here’s how you can clarify your dreams, prepare your inner self, develop new habits, gain inspiration and motivation, and others to make your dream life a reality.
Aileen of Lavendaire, a YouTuber and Artist of Life, generously shared tips on how she made her dream life a reality. She started from the basic and went deep in to the details of tips on how to live your dream life.
Believing your dream life is possible and believing in yourself is actually the perfect first step, because dreaming without believing makes no sense at all. When you believe, you will have the motivation to set your mindset to take action and have that inner fire to keep yourself motivated.
Know your true self. What are your passions, purpose, strengths, and weaknesses? Embrace these traits because these what makes you special, and these will serve as tools to reach your dream.
Have a vivid vision of what your dream life will look like. You have to align everything in your mind and in paper. Writing it down definitely makes it all crystal clear. Lavendaire prepared an exercise called Vivid Vision where you write down your dream life in present tense. This was so fun to do. No worries, Lavendaire also share her Vivid Vision of hers back in 2015 for inspiration.
We have different fears and we tend to ignore some of them instead of facing it and take it constructively. Learning to control your fears is actually learning to release what’s holding you back in achieving those dreams. Your fears will serve as a hindrance if you let it to.
It doesn’t matter how slow or small your action is towards your dream life, what’s important is you are being consistent. However, we are not perfect, being consistent can be a tough job sometimes, so always make sure that after you fall from consistency, rise up and soar high again. It’s okay to take a break sometimes.
Yes, we are talking about Law of Attraction. Basically, it means that if you act like you already are living your dream life, you are actually attracting that dream life, so therefore the universe will help you make it into reality.
Being positive on your journey will help you stay longer in the game. Of course, there will be failures and disappointments during your journey, so make sure to take those things as constructive as possible. Forgive yourself, learn from it, and voila you’re back at the game.
Stress will always be there but don’t get yourself burnt out. Remember, you are important. So develop some habits to balance everything out like meditating, journaling, learning, working, and etc. Don’t suffer and enjoy the process. Take it slow or at any pace that you can handle.
Dream Life Series is a guide in creating your your dream life and making it a reality. This is composed of videos, journal prompts, worksheet, and motivation for your journey towards your dream life. And at the end of the series, you will be more confident to take action because you’re now filled of knowledge and determination to do so.
Here's how you can access the full series: Dream Life Series
PS: Aileen, if you are reading this. I would like you to know that you are inspiring so many people (including me) so keep on doing what you love and we will always be here to support you.
PS: Aileen, if you are reading this. I would like you to know that you are inspiring so many people (including me) so keep on doing what you love and we will always be here to support you.
Let’s do this together and empower each other!
The Astron
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Sometimes, I do forget to do number 7 embracing my journey and its obstacles. As a human, i tend to react on failures without having second thoughts which makes me impulsive. In return, i do get more failures after another. Thanks for reminding! :) love this!!
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